A new Community Interest Company (CIC) has been set up by a Newton Aycliffe family caught up in the Manchester terror attack to help young people deal with trauma.
Marie Robson has created Bee Happy 2gether to offer peer support to young people and families affected by post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), after her daughter Millie was seriously injured in the bomb attack at the Ariana Grande Concert on May 22, 2017.
Just a week after the first anniversary of the Manchester tragedy, Bee Happy 2gether was officially launched at the ROF 59 activity centre on Aycliffe Business Park this week.
Around 200 people attended and youngsters enjoyed trampolining, cake making, arts & crafts, cupcake making, a treasure hunt, nail bar, and tombola.
Bee Happy 2gether aims to provide families with support in a fun, safe and supportive way, by providing a range of activities, workshops and events. Marie has already enlisted the help of four volunteers who will offer support to people affected by bullying, bereavement, assault, domestic violence and accidents.
“After the terror attack last year we realised quite quickly that traditional counselling services weren’t right for Millie at that time,”
I found she was getting more out of going to Manchester and meeting other people who’d been involved in the attack, as we all did as a family.
“I’ve always worked on various peer-to-peer projects in and around County Durham and I had to give up work to look after Millie last year. So it seemed like a natural progression, to set up something that would benefit not only Millie but her friends and family, because of the impact a trauma can have around a family.
“It’s not just for people affected by Manchester. We have quite a few young people who have been in touch affected by other forms of trauma”
With the Manchester attack still a raw memory, Marie says setting up Bee Happy 2gether has given the family a focus. She added: “You see things over the years when people set up things like this and you sometimes think ‘how can you do that? It’s about moving on in a safe way and trying to take something positive from what happened.”
Woodham Academy student Millie said: “When I tried to get counselling, it didn’t really work for me. But spending time with my friends, and doing ordinary things that teenagers do, helped me more than anything. It’s about bringing young people together, to allow them to do fun activities and be like ordinary kids. It’s almost like a twist on counselling, but more modernised, and I think in the future it will help a lot of people.”
And just a week after the first anniversary, brave Millie added: “I feel a lot better about things now the first year anniversary is over, and that it has helped me to move on. I’m really proud of my Mam, she has put a lot of time and effort into it.”
The official launch of Bee Happy 2gether was attended by local councillors, police officers, as well as Durham Police and Crime Commissioner Ron Hogg.
“This is just amazing,” said Ron. “Marie came to see me about this – the energy she has, and the desire to be positive is all here today and it’s marvellous. She will be successful. She’s got that drive, the personal passion and commitment, and that is so important when you’re trying to do the kind of work she’s doing. I want to work closely as I possibly can with Marie to help her.”
To find out more about Bee Happy 2gether, go to www.beehappy2gether.org.uk
